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		<title>Comment on Cyberbullying is still bullying: Michigan&#8217;s Assistant Attorney General and his homophobic blog by Abner Barb (@kahlerlawfirm)</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2010/10/10/cyberbullying-is-still-bullying-michigans-assistant-attorney-general-and-his-homophobic-blog/#comment-5427</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abner Barb (@kahlerlawfirm)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2011 08:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for the post, I am very interested and was wondering if anyone else had any other related posts they could suggest. I like writing blog articles myself and would like to gather as much information as I can.
http://www.kahlerlawfirm.com/]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the post, I am very interested and was wondering if anyone else had any other related posts they could suggest. I like writing blog articles myself and would like to gather as much information as I can.<br />
<a href="http://www.kahlerlawfirm.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.kahlerlawfirm.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Tonight I’m ‘Loving’ You? by Francesca Holland</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2011/01/09/tonight-i%e2%80%99m-%e2%80%98loving%e2%80%99-you/#comment-5416</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Francesca Holland]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 22:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just wanted to point out that skimpole said in terms of &quot;phonology&quot;, so the SOUND and not meaning of the words.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wanted to point out that skimpole said in terms of &#8220;phonology&#8221;, so the SOUND and not meaning of the words.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pulling yourself up by your bra straps: how college students are turning to sugar daddies to pay off loans by Scribler</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2011/08/01/pulling-yourself-up-by-your-bra-straps-how-college-students-are-turning-to-sugar-daddies-to-pay-off-loans/#comment-5392</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Scribler]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 01:07:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting that you would describe it as an incredibly valuable piece of paper.  Can&#039;t be that valuable if the only option you have to pay for it when you&#039;re done is prostitution...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting that you would describe it as an incredibly valuable piece of paper.  Can&#8217;t be that valuable if the only option you have to pay for it when you&#8217;re done is prostitution&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quick Hit: New &#8220;Female Friendly&#8221; Porn Channel by Tania</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2010/01/24/quick-hit-new-female-friendly-porn-channel/#comment-5321</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tania]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 20:24:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just discoverd this phenom. as well and at first I thought this was just another ploy or that it would be clips of that awful porn with bad storylines and even worse acting. We have all watched it. Though I must admit I was pleasantly surprised by what I saw since Im picky about the  kind of porn I&#039;ll watch even the man friendly kind (a man using a women&#039;s vagina like his hand to materbate. Yuck!) So when I clicked on the clip called lovers by x-art I was surprised by how much I liked it, I think it&#039;s because it reminded me of erotica which I also like. I would recommend this site if you want &quot;female friendly porn&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just discoverd this phenom. as well and at first I thought this was just another ploy or that it would be clips of that awful porn with bad storylines and even worse acting. We have all watched it. Though I must admit I was pleasantly surprised by what I saw since Im picky about the  kind of porn I&#8217;ll watch even the man friendly kind (a man using a women&#8217;s vagina like his hand to materbate. Yuck!) So when I clicked on the clip called lovers by x-art I was surprised by how much I liked it, I think it&#8217;s because it reminded me of erotica which I also like. I would recommend this site if you want &#8220;female friendly porn&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quick hit: Midwife Cara Muhlhahn sued for negligence by joy</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[joy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 00:21:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am just reading this now, hopefully &quot;anonymous&quot; is still checking out this site... I just read this Johnson and Daviss study you cited. The study shows that Certified Professional Midwives who home birth have similar outcomes to hospitals.... 
I did not see any 10/10,000 stats at all, I am a little sleep deprived though I may have missed it, maybe I looked at a different study, can you provide me with the title of the study, etc.

Have you had bad experiences with midwives?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am just reading this now, hopefully &#8220;anonymous&#8221; is still checking out this site&#8230; I just read this Johnson and Daviss study you cited. The study shows that Certified Professional Midwives who home birth have similar outcomes to hospitals&#8230;.<br />
I did not see any 10/10,000 stats at all, I am a little sleep deprived though I may have missed it, maybe I looked at a different study, can you provide me with the title of the study, etc.</p>
<p>Have you had bad experiences with midwives?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are Freshmen Children? Princeton’s Greek Ban Implies That Students Can’t Think for Themselves by g</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[g]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 01:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t follow.  Affirmative action is racist in the sense that it treats people of some races more favorably than it treats others. There&#039;s no denying that; what people would argue about is whether being racist is necessarily wrong.  At a low level racial discrimination seems distasteful at best, but if you look at &quot;the bigger picture&quot; maybe it starts to seem justified, even morally required.

Isn&#039;t it curious, though, that this case of &quot;reverse&quot; racism also reverses the political sides--you have the right pleading for equal treatment and the left not only condoning but urging racial discrimination.  Almost as if social animals think in terms of people they like or dislike instead of principles they can reason about. 

You are making this argument, that one&#039;s group affiliation dominates everything else.  But the author could as easily turn that around on you--claim that your views are dictated by your group affiliation, which I infer is not one you feel is mainstream. Thus is Marxism defeated.

My point was that personal experience can let you look at things in a different light.  I doubt that anyone is going to start protesting the 1964 Civil Rights Act, etc., because of their experience, but it might help them have a more nuanced view of things.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t follow.  Affirmative action is racist in the sense that it treats people of some races more favorably than it treats others. There&#8217;s no denying that; what people would argue about is whether being racist is necessarily wrong.  At a low level racial discrimination seems distasteful at best, but if you look at &#8220;the bigger picture&#8221; maybe it starts to seem justified, even morally required.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t it curious, though, that this case of &#8220;reverse&#8221; racism also reverses the political sides&#8211;you have the right pleading for equal treatment and the left not only condoning but urging racial discrimination.  Almost as if social animals think in terms of people they like or dislike instead of principles they can reason about. </p>
<p>You are making this argument, that one&#8217;s group affiliation dominates everything else.  But the author could as easily turn that around on you&#8211;claim that your views are dictated by your group affiliation, which I infer is not one you feel is mainstream. Thus is Marxism defeated.</p>
<p>My point was that personal experience can let you look at things in a different light.  I doubt that anyone is going to start protesting the 1964 Civil Rights Act, etc., because of their experience, but it might help them have a more nuanced view of things.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are Freshmen Children? Princeton’s Greek Ban Implies That Students Can’t Think for Themselves by K</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[K]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Sep 2011 11:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree with G. 

There&#039;s something you&#039;re missing. See what there is in this &#039;lesson&#039; for you to learn. The goggles you&#039;re seeing through are goggles of privilege, of being in the &#039;in&#039; group. If you were in the &#039;out&#039; group, then you&#039;d see how greek communities do stratify by race and class. And comparing it to Black Engineers group is missing the point. Groups like that are often formed because those members don&#039;t find support in existing groups that exclude them. 

Your whole argument is sounding so similar to the affirmative action argument - that it&#039;s reverse racism. And the reason, psychologically, that most white people have against affirmative action, is that they see it in terms of what they are losing, and not the bigger picture.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with G. </p>
<p>There&#8217;s something you&#8217;re missing. See what there is in this &#8216;lesson&#8217; for you to learn. The goggles you&#8217;re seeing through are goggles of privilege, of being in the &#8216;in&#8217; group. If you were in the &#8216;out&#8217; group, then you&#8217;d see how greek communities do stratify by race and class. And comparing it to Black Engineers group is missing the point. Groups like that are often formed because those members don&#8217;t find support in existing groups that exclude them. </p>
<p>Your whole argument is sounding so similar to the affirmative action argument &#8211; that it&#8217;s reverse racism. And the reason, psychologically, that most white people have against affirmative action, is that they see it in terms of what they are losing, and not the bigger picture.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are Freshmen Children? Princeton’s Greek Ban Implies That Students Can’t Think for Themselves by g</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[g]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 23:13:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Deserve got nothin to do with it.

My point was simply that the value of certain freedoms and rights are often is often not appreciated until the restriction of them is up close and personal.  When that happens, suddenly people start singing another tune.  And while I could be mistaken, I&#039;m pretty confident that most bloggers here, and indeed most college students, aren&#039;t all up in arms about the infringement of your freedom to, say, openly discriminate against women when hiring.  Yet freedom of association becomes an important value for you when it is your own freedom that is threatened.  

Thus, your experience with ST might lead you to ponder the wisdom of authoritarian interventions in private lives done to implement someone&#039;s idea of the social good.  Perhaps you had already learned that lesson...but I doubt it

P.S.  To clarify, Dale is most certainly NOT a decision I would expect a left-leaning person to support.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deserve got nothin to do with it.</p>
<p>My point was simply that the value of certain freedoms and rights are often is often not appreciated until the restriction of them is up close and personal.  When that happens, suddenly people start singing another tune.  And while I could be mistaken, I&#8217;m pretty confident that most bloggers here, and indeed most college students, aren&#8217;t all up in arms about the infringement of your freedom to, say, openly discriminate against women when hiring.  Yet freedom of association becomes an important value for you when it is your own freedom that is threatened.  </p>
<p>Thus, your experience with ST might lead you to ponder the wisdom of authoritarian interventions in private lives done to implement someone&#8217;s idea of the social good.  Perhaps you had already learned that lesson&#8230;but I doubt it</p>
<p>P.S.  To clarify, Dale is most certainly NOT a decision I would expect a left-leaning person to support.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are Freshmen Children? Princeton’s Greek Ban Implies That Students Can’t Think for Themselves by Nina</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2011/09/17/are-freshmen-children-princeton%e2%80%99s-greek-ban-implies-that-students-can%e2%80%99t-think-for-themselves/#comment-5251</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nina]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 19:47:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you suggesting that having my freedom of association limited is something I deserve because I have not suffered it before (or at least you assume that to be the case)? Or that I would accept/support the Dale vs. Boy Scouts outcome because I identify as left-leaning? Both suggestions are absurd.

Furthermore, the individuals who blog for Equal Writes are not part of some hive mind where we all have the same views. My co-bloggers are more than welcome to disagree with me, perhaps many do. But I don&#039;t think that any of them would tell me I deserve the &quot;lesson&quot; of &quot;heavy-handed morality from on high&quot;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you suggesting that having my freedom of association limited is something I deserve because I have not suffered it before (or at least you assume that to be the case)? Or that I would accept/support the Dale vs. Boy Scouts outcome because I identify as left-leaning? Both suggestions are absurd.</p>
<p>Furthermore, the individuals who blog for Equal Writes are not part of some hive mind where we all have the same views. My co-bloggers are more than welcome to disagree with me, perhaps many do. But I don&#8217;t think that any of them would tell me I deserve the &#8220;lesson&#8221; of &#8220;heavy-handed morality from on high&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are Freshmen Children? Princeton’s Greek Ban Implies That Students Can’t Think for Themselves by g</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[g]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 23:07:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[First they came for the communists....

My point being that freedom of association has been trampled over both legally and socially without, I would venture to say, much of an outcry from progressive-types.  Anti-discrimination laws are a prominent example. Also notable is the Boy Scouts v. Dale case, where if I am not mistaken the left-leaning response at the Boy Scouts being able to exclude gay leaders was short of joyful.  In fact I think few of your co-bloggers would take your side on this question.

Perhaps having your own freedom compromised by heavy-handed morality from on high will make a good lesson.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First they came for the communists&#8230;.</p>
<p>My point being that freedom of association has been trampled over both legally and socially without, I would venture to say, much of an outcry from progressive-types.  Anti-discrimination laws are a prominent example. Also notable is the Boy Scouts v. Dale case, where if I am not mistaken the left-leaning response at the Boy Scouts being able to exclude gay leaders was short of joyful.  In fact I think few of your co-bloggers would take your side on this question.</p>
<p>Perhaps having your own freedom compromised by heavy-handed morality from on high will make a good lesson.</p>
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