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		<title>Comment on An Asian Girl&#8217;s Take on Childish Gambino by Vivienne Chen</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/05/04/an-asian-girls-take-on-childish-gambino/#comment-6250</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vivienne Chen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 04:21:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for your feedback, I appreciate it! I think it&#039;s important to point out where my modifiers were carefully placed: &quot;To those [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege] to [find girls in Asian countries]--those guys are the real scumbags.&quot;

An &lt;b&gt;incorrect&lt;/b&gt; reading of this statement would be &quot;[Those who find girls in Asian countries] are scumbags [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege].&quot;

A correct reading is: &quot;[Only] those [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege] to [find girls in Asian countries] are scumbags.&quot;

And perhaps a more nuanced statement that I should have said was, &quot;[Only] those [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege] to [BUY people] in [ANY COUNTRY] are scumbags.&quot;

So, yes, unintentional readings duly noted. I shall make an amendment to the post. :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your feedback, I appreciate it! I think it&#8217;s important to point out where my modifiers were carefully placed: &#8220;To those [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege] to [find girls in Asian countries]&#8211;those guys are the real scumbags.&#8221;</p>
<p>An <b>incorrect</b> reading of this statement would be &#8220;[Those who find girls in Asian countries] are scumbags [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege].&#8221;</p>
<p>A correct reading is: &#8220;[Only] those [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege] to [find girls in Asian countries] are scumbags.&#8221;</p>
<p>And perhaps a more nuanced statement that I should have said was, &#8220;[Only] those [who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege] to [BUY people] in [ANY COUNTRY] are scumbags.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, yes, unintentional readings duly noted. I shall make an amendment to the post. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on An Asian Girl&#8217;s Take on Childish Gambino by Public Name</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/05/04/an-asian-girls-take-on-childish-gambino/#comment-6249</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 04:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I liked this as well Vivienne.  However, as an American married to my dearest from Thailand I was troubled by the following statement.  

&quot;The men who prey upon Asian women’s shyness, fewer and farther between, will find that most Asian women brought up in Western societies (even the demure, shy ones), are smart enough to recognize a creeper when they see one. And to those who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege to find girls in Asian countries– those guys are the real scumbags. &quot;  

Although clearly not your intention, i think you inadvertently suggest  the following,

1. Most Asian women who are not from Western societies lack the smarts to recognize creeps.

2. While we should stop being suspicious (have a knee-jerk reaction) of men who have a thing for Western Asian girls, we may resume being suspicious of those who have a thing for girls in (or in my case just happen to be with a girl from) Asian countries--after all they might have used &quot;their purchasing power/colonial male privilege.&quot;

Again, I recognize that you did not intend to make those claims.  Nor do I think that they are unambiguously suggested.  Nonetheless, by not elaborating on these possible readings I think a reader could reasonably come away with those impressions.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked this as well Vivienne.  However, as an American married to my dearest from Thailand I was troubled by the following statement.  </p>
<p>&#8220;The men who prey upon Asian women’s shyness, fewer and farther between, will find that most Asian women brought up in Western societies (even the demure, shy ones), are smart enough to recognize a creeper when they see one. And to those who seek comfort by using their purchasing power/colonial male privilege to find girls in Asian countries– those guys are the real scumbags. &#8221;  </p>
<p>Although clearly not your intention, i think you inadvertently suggest  the following,</p>
<p>1. Most Asian women who are not from Western societies lack the smarts to recognize creeps.</p>
<p>2. While we should stop being suspicious (have a knee-jerk reaction) of men who have a thing for Western Asian girls, we may resume being suspicious of those who have a thing for girls in (or in my case just happen to be with a girl from) Asian countries&#8211;after all they might have used &#8220;their purchasing power/colonial male privilege.&#8221;</p>
<p>Again, I recognize that you did not intend to make those claims.  Nor do I think that they are unambiguously suggested.  Nonetheless, by not elaborating on these possible readings I think a reader could reasonably come away with those impressions.</p>
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		<title>Comment on An Asian Girl&#8217;s Take on Childish Gambino by Eddie Grove</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/05/04/an-asian-girls-take-on-childish-gambino/#comment-6239</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Eddie Grove]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 18:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like this Vivienne :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like this Vivienne <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on What If Love Is Only Approximately Equal To Love? Objectùm-Sexuality and the Definition of Love by André von Kugland</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/04/03/what-if-love-is-only-approximately-equal-to-love-objectum-sexuality-and-the-definition-of-love/#comment-6237</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[André von Kugland]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 18:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now here is the question nobody dares to ask: why Amanda should be deprived of her human rights, and be denied the right to formalize the relationship of love she has with the Statue of Liberty by marrying her?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now here is the question nobody dares to ask: why Amanda should be deprived of her human rights, and be denied the right to formalize the relationship of love she has with the Statue of Liberty by marrying her?</p>
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		<title>Comment on What If Love Is Only Approximately Equal To Love? Objectùm-Sexuality and the Definition of Love by André von Kugland</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/04/03/what-if-love-is-only-approximately-equal-to-love-objectum-sexuality-and-the-definition-of-love/#comment-6236</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[André von Kugland]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 18:11:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is the question nobody dares to ask: why can’t Amanda marry the Statue of Liberty? Why should she be deprived of her human rights because of arbitrary social norms?!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is the question nobody dares to ask: why can’t Amanda marry the Statue of Liberty? Why should she be deprived of her human rights because of arbitrary social norms?!</p>
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		<title>Comment on &#8220;Everyone is Beautiful?&#8221; by Abe</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/03/21/everyone-is-beautiful/#comment-6225</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 15:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m sorry, but I have to disagree with  you. I DO think you are beautiful.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry, but I have to disagree with  you. I DO think you are beautiful.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sexism is alive and well on &quot;Top Chef&quot; by claireshana</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2009/08/21/sexism-is-alive-and-well-on-top-chef/#comment-6208</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[claireshana]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 05:59:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nine seasons and only one female winner..yep sexism is alive and well on this show]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nine seasons and only one female winner..yep sexism is alive and well on this show</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sex-positive porn! Feminist porn? by Frost</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2009/04/07/sex-positive-porn-feminist-porn/#comment-6181</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Frost]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2012 09:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great point! I am fully for the installation of a new paradigm for sex-work - one that is more geared toward healthy integration rather than abolishing it completely. Well said! :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point! I am fully for the installation of a new paradigm for sex-work &#8211; one that is more geared toward healthy integration rather than abolishing it completely. Well said! <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on What If Love Is Only Approximately Equal To Love? Objectùm-Sexuality and the Definition of Love by Megan</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/04/03/what-if-love-is-only-approximately-equal-to-love-objectum-sexuality-and-the-definition-of-love/#comment-6152</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Megan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 15:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fantastic article!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fantastic article!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What If Love Is Only Approximately Equal To Love? Objectùm-Sexuality and the Definition of Love by Vivienne Chen</title>
		<link>http://equalwrites.org/2012/04/03/what-if-love-is-only-approximately-equal-to-love-objectum-sexuality-and-the-definition-of-love/#comment-6081</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vivienne Chen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 15:35:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Richard, this is great! Objectum-sexuality is such an interesting topic and I am totally fascinated by it. Well done!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Richard, this is great! Objectum-sexuality is such an interesting topic and I am totally fascinated by it. Well done!</p>
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